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Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Guest Post: Conquering Cold Email Fear

By Amanda Ryan

What is it about cold emailing editors that makes writers shake in their pj's? When I started out, it was the task on my list of writer's goals that kept getting pushed back farther and farther, until one day I came across a publication I thought would be a great fit with an article idea I hadn't quite formulated yet. I didn't know a whole lot about what I was doing when I sent that first cold email off, but afterward I felt I'd (mostly) conquered my fear and felt darn good about myself for doing it. I didn't get a go-ahead from that editor, but I learned one very important thing: it's all in the packaging. Here are my ways for getting over that initial fear and taking the plunge into cold emailing.

* Sell your idea to yourself first. Give yourself all the reasons why your idea and that publication are a great fit. In fact, they ought to get married, they're so meant to be together. That publication deserves to have your article, but more importantly, that article deserves to be in that publication.

* Imagine your pitch already accepted. I think this is what that Tony Robbins guy is always preaching, but there's a reason he's a billionaire. Imagining that you've already got the editor's approval takes all the negative edge off (I'm not good enough, there are lots of writers with better ideas, more experience, etc.), and your confidence takes over.

* There are millions out there just like you. This may not seem like such a great thing. In fact, it seems downright discouraging. But there's also a safety in numbers when it comes to the global market of freelance writing. Just think of how many bad--sometimes very, very bad--cold emails an editor gets. When you know you're good at what you do, your idea is fantastic and your email says just that (but in a clever and level-headed way), you've got a chance at impressing this person by standing out from the crowd. The archives of Deb Ng's Cover Letter Clinic are filled with other writers'cover letters, as well as Deb's excellent feedback.

* Look over other writers' shoulders. Check out some other writers' cold emails. Ask your fellow writer friends to send you some of theirs. Or, send an email to queries@renegadewriter.com for some excellent and free query letter samples.

* If you're not happy, don't send it. That is, don't send the pitch until your confidence in the piece shines through. Remember that the editor has no idea what your article is about, the research it requires or why it's important to you, and the way you portray it is the only thing s/he has to go on. Just like when you're in the drug store deciding on a new shampoo, it's the packaging that makes you take the plunge.

Amanda Ryan is a freelance writer in Vancouver, BC who blogs at From Ink to Ether.

9 comments:

Yvonne said...

Thank you Amanda for your post, I found it very helpful - I'm not quite at that stage yet but the thought of cold contact is a little nervewracking. Your post will come in very handy when the time comes!

Amanda Nicole said...

I'm glad I could help, Yvonne. I get a ton of search traffic to my blog looking for cold emailing tips, and it occurred to me that people aren't necessarily looking for a formula to apply to their emails, but rather they're psyching themselves up for the plunge by dipping a toe into the water.

Just remember-- editors are people, too! Just very, very busy people.

Michele said...

Great article, Amanda! I think that's where I've failed many times... forgetting to visualize the end result of having my name and article in that certain publication. It's hard to muster up enough confidence sometimes, especially for writers with shy, hermit tendencies. :-)

I agree with Yvonne. Very helpful!

Smiles,
Michele

Amanda Nicole said...

Haha, yes Michele, I think writers especially have a hard time with things like cold emailing and self-promotion in general. We're writers! We thrive off of dark hovels and solitude! Well, maybe I speak for myself...

Michele said...

No, no, you don't speak for yourself. I'm right with you in a quiet corner of the world, an island all to myself. :-)

Ah, the solitude...

Smiles,
Michele

Patty Robb said...

When I sent my first cold e-mail my heart was in my throat. I was scared silly, but the editor liked it. I haven't done it since, but I keep trying. This post was encouraging. Thanks.

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Amanda Nicole said...

Glad I could help, Patty.

I'm more of the lying awake in bed with a knot in my stomach type :)

Trish Ryan said...

Great suggestions. I'm not sure why it's so gut-wrenching, but it can be. Thanks for the encouragement :)

Amanda Nicole said...

Haha, gut-wrenching is what I call doing readings. I've been doing them for years (in fact I have one coming up I'm completely unprepared for), and like cold emails, they get easier and improve with time.

Just be thankful we're in the age of email; not so long ago we'd be cold CALLING editors!