May 17, 2012

Have a Wonderful Lie

Lately I’ve been on an essay reading kick, so I picked up a recommendation from one of my book club buddies. It’s a Wonderful Lie: 26 Truths About Life in Your Twenties is a delightfully sarcastic homage to life in your twenties: finding a job and apartment, dating, drinking, and more. Some of my faves so far include Jill Kargman’s “Letter to My Crappy One-Bedroom” (which inspired me to write about my adventures in urban real estate), Alison Pace’s “Hired, Fired, and What I Wore” (has she been following me with hidden cameras ala TLC’s What Not to Wear? it’s like she’s inside my closet), and Cara Lockwood’s “Breaking Up (with MasterCard) Is Hard to Do.” Special kudos go to Leanne Shear and Tracey Toomey for their take on post-Sex and the City feminism in “Girls Can Do Anything!.” In fact, Leanne and Tracey are appearing as my featured muses this Thursday, so check that out.

The one thing I didn’t like so much about the book it is the homophony of voices. After a while, the essays start to sound like the same 24-year old writer struggling to find her voice and find a boyfriend. I’ve been there, I get it, but can we please talk about something else? Twentysomething Essays by Twentysomething Writers reflects a much more diverse sampling of young writers and experiences. But I still love It’s a Wonderful Lie, too. If you’re trying to get your own essays published (and good luck to you, it’s tough!), check out Allison Winn Scotch’s post on that very topic. I’m pleased to report that since I started my Q & A with The Urban Muse, writers and publicists have actually started sending me galleys of their books. My primary goal has always been to further my knowledge and that of my fellow writers, but if I get to read some new books in the process, then so much the better!

I’d like to thank the Academy…

Seriously, though, these past few weeks have been a little frantic at times, and I couldn’t have gotten through them without the help of a few wondeful people. Thanks to my tech-savvy friends, I have a functioning computer instead of an over-priced doorstop.

Thanks to Vista Print, I have stylish new business cards AND a new website. It took me a while to settle on a design template and color scheme (kinda like when I tried to decorate my apartment but couldn’t decide between earth tones or jewel tones, classic or contemporary furniture, silk curtains or shears), but their customer service was fantastic at answering all my questions. Even though I do a lot of design at work, I still think that playing with fonts and adding some colored boxes does not a designer make. Regardless, I’m pretty happy with the results.

Thanks to Media Bistro for offering fabulous weekend classes (just took their class on Copywriting Basics yesterday). So far all the pitching guides through AvantGuild have been great, and I’m headed to their media party on Wednesday, so thanks for all the good times (strictly media-related, of course).

I’d also like to thank James Blunt and John Mayer for keeping me company during the long, lonely nights at my computer and Hershey’s white chocolate for making it all possible!

Good News for Susie Co-Ed?

My friend Lyn sent me a link to “The Romantic Life of Brainiacs” in last week’s Boston Globe Magazine. We rejoiced in the author’s conclusion that a Harvard MBA hasn’t kept many Mass. women from finding a mate. Michael Noer over at Forbes would disagree. The New York Times covered this supposed trend (women staying unattached longer – ever heard of Queen Elizabeth I?) last month. They later admitted that their statistics may have been a little skewed in the aptly titled Can a 15-year old be a ‘woman without a spouse’? Perhaps in some parts of the antebellum South, but here in Boston in 2007, you’re not an old maid unless you’re wearing high-button shoes and using phrases like “gentleman caller” (theatre productions of “The Glass Menagerie” do not count). Or at least that’s what I tell myself, because there’s another wedding of high school friends this weekend. Here’s to smart women everywhere!

Real Women Eat Beef

Just got home from a book reading by Tracy McArdle, author of Real Women Eat Beef. Honestly, I was initially drawn to the event just on the basis of her catchy title (not that I agree, but I was intrigued nonetheless). However, when I discovered that the book is about a non-meat-eater whose Boston advertising firm assigns her to rebrand beef, I was HOOKED! What could be funnier? (Sidenote: the novel that I don’t have time to write also takes place in Boston. That’s about all I know at this point.) Tracy’s reading of the scene where her heroine meets the good ol’ boys of the beef industry was hilarious. Now there’s an author who can milk a scene for maximum comic effect!

I definitely plan on reading the complete novel and her debut novel, which is cleverly titled Confessions of a Nervous Shiksa, but perhaps the juiciest portion of the evening came when Tracy talked about her writing process. She emphasized that regardless of how funny or true a scene is, if it doesn’t develop the characters or the plot, it doesn’t belong in your novel. I think a lot of writers (myself included) struggle with this problem. We find a few lines of dialogue or an idea that we’re madly in love with, but we can’t get enough distance to see that it’s not contributing to the bigger picture. This is where it helps to have a good editor friend to bring us back to earth. She also talked about reading versus analyzing, e.i. taking a book and, instead of getting carried away by the well developed characters and setting, really looking at what makes it work. I think this works for non-fiction as well. And, of course, what book reading would be complete without someone asking totally off-topics questions about Norman Mailer or the logic behind physical attraction? Being a savvy PR person, Tracy handled it like a pro.